Considering the Vorrutyers, I wouldn't be shocked if Piotr said "hey, she was a Vorrutyer, you get her" and Count Vorrutyer said "hello no, she married a Vorkosigan" and Piotr was overruled.

I dunno. The whole bridal bed imagry in the epilogue to Cryoburn fills me with rage. HE HAD TWO WIVES. And, yes, there are two sides, he could be buried between them, THAT'S NOT WHAT IT SAYS. It's just, her erasure *pisses me off*. Of all of them, that one bothers me the most. Yeah, she was probably honor-killed, no one cares, and even the narrative insults her.